Conscious Parenting

The majority of a person’s mindset and vision for life are formed in childhood. When a child is born, parents often have beautiful aspirations for them, such as success, stability, and happiness. However, most of us have a mistaken definition of what is truly good for a person’s life! This widespread misunderstanding creates a society that is not very happy—a society built on lives that do not understand themselves.

The environment that shapes a person, from the formation of a new baby to birth, growth, and adulthood, is vast, ranging from family to society. It all starts with the Mother!

From the moment a baby is conceived, the mother’s womb is a paradise, a warm nest where the baby takes shape. Therefore, the “heart” of the Mother needs to be pure for the child’s nest to be warm. To be clear, a Mother unconsciously transfers all her DNA to her child, if she does not live in mindfulness. An attitude of understanding oneself and others is the ultimate expression of a mother’s love for her child, rather than a love that does not come from wisdom. A mother’s blindness creates a child who lacks clarity, and a father’s ignorance lays the foundation for delinquent youth.

From an unclear beginning, the parent-child relationship often faces fundamental problems, which almost every family encounters: confusion, disagreement, and differences in mindset and language. As a result, the child becomes increasingly misunderstood and distant from what they call Home.

Upon reaching adulthood, society with its various environments and relationships will create new pressures. There, a child who has been obedient since childhood knows only to comply with the unspoken rules set by a society made up of unhappy individuals.​​

All of this creates a societal mechanism that exists through mutual cycles and constraints, generating survival pressures that are very evident today. Lives are repeated through fixed cycles: being born, being raised according to adults’ expectations, going to school, absorbing the collective mindset, graduating, working, pairing up, starting a family, having children, aging, and dying. Throughout this process, each role is carried out repetitively in the same manner: the child follows the trajectory of a child, the mother follows her own path, and the husband and father follow the same life cycle.​

Throughout this survival process, each of us has buried and overlooked a vibrant inner resource, a dynamic treasure within every child! This is the core wisdom, the true intelligence of humanity, directly connected to the great wisdom of the universe—the mystery of life lies here!​

To reach the boundless intellect granted uniquely to humankind by creation, a child needs to be free from the very beginning of their new life!​

Observe a child who is free to explore, and they will amaze you endlessly, if you have the courage to loosen the grip of the "adult" within you and trust in the innate nature of your child. Being able to do this is a kind of wisdom for parents​.